083: How to stop being a business good girl
The Uncommon Couch
083: How to stop being a business good girl
If there’s one thing I’ve learned as a business owner, it’s that no matter what you do, someone will tell you you’re doing it wrong. There’s always one voice out there who doesn’t believe, who thinks you’re bound to fail. But the true test of a successful and courageous entrepreneur is breaking free of those people-pleasing patterns and doing what feels right for you, even if it means going against the status quo.
In this episode, I’m talking about the “good girl” persona and how it can affect your business. I’m explaining the different people-pleasing patterns and habits that can form from this persona and how to disconnect from others’ opinions of you. Plus, I’m sharing how to reconnect with your own sense of self and get in touch with your inner badass.
What you’ll find in this episode:
The key traits of the “good girl” persona and how they can hurt your business
How to identify resent or disappointment you might be feeling towards your work
Why you shouldn’t make your business decisions from guilt or obligation
How to break free of the “good girl” patterns and take your own path
How to reconnect with your sense of self and vision for your life
How to disconnect from others’ opinions (or imagined opinions) of you
Quotes:
“If your business feels like it's fueling feelings of disappointment and resentment, it's time to take a big step back.” - Alyssa
“Doing what you think is expected of you is a fast path to burnout, frustration, bitterness and resentment.” - Alyssa
“Your inner badass is going to look different than someone else's, but it's definitely in there.” - Alyssa
“What would it look like if I operated in my business without fear of being judged?” - Alyssa